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need to know if i should message him or not
hi 20/f him 19/m
ok so me and my ex broke up cause he said he doesnt love me any more. i still really love and care about him. before we broke up we talked and agreed that we would still stay friends. it has been like 6 months since we broke up and we would talk every day. i have really bad depression issues and tend to get really down on myself and tell him what i am thinking and most of the time it will end up with us fighting. and about a week ago we ended up getting into another fight and he said it would be best if we dont talk any more and if we do that we just stay friends and nothing more. but since then he hasnt texted me and if i ask if he hates me he wont answer and no matter how mant times a say im sorry it doesnt seem to change anything so my question is should i text him or give it like another week and see if he messages me and if he doesnt should i message him. i still really love him and care about him and even after we broke up he still cares about me but not like i care about him. he is my best friend and the only person i truly trust and i dont want to lose him. what should i do. sorry its so unorganised im not very good at expressing my feelings
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its really reallyyy hard to do...but you need to just not text him or contact him anyway, respect his wishes. It's the hardest thing, waiting around for him to respond or thinking about whether you should text him or not. I understand how you feel. You just need to distract urself and do fun things making you look and feeel fabulous. spend time with your friends and all just try and "be confident" so if he does contact you, he can see how much stronger you are and may be taken aback on how you have been doing. another thing is...he's only 19 you never know if he may just want to keep his options open and if he does you got to accept it but if he really does love you he could realize that in time. only time will tell. just in the meantime, have fun, distract urself, keep ur headup and look at this as a way for you to improve urself.
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If you truely love him, let him go, if he comes bck to you then you guys are meant to be. Let him think bout things and wait some time as I thinkhe may be sad or mad about this too. The best thing to do right now is to let him be and move on.
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