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how do i ask her if she's bi or not?
Well im 15 years old & im bisexual ijust havent let it out to anyone isometimes reject it but im attracted to girls. theres a girl in my school who always stares at me during lunch she's beautiful when i talk to her she laughs and smiles alot but she stares at me always iwas wondering how do i ask her if she's bi or not?
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Well I think that you should just make good friends with her and theninvite her over and tell her and maybe she will like you back
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Hi,
My first girl crush was my senior year. She stared at me every time I walked into class. I came out in class telling my friend I was bi and she over heard me and she turned around to look at me then looked away nervously. I was acing my calc class so she asked me to tutor her after school. First time, we were in the library and it was obvious to me we were both nervous. Then I invited her to study at my house and again the atmosphere of nervousness. That's when she came out and told me she was bi. We continued to spend time together and eventually we hooked up. So maybe you can try something like what happened in my situation. You could talk about it with a trustworthy friend close by. You could invite her over and see where that goes. Or you could talk to her and watch for body language indicating whether or not she's into you. Best thing I could tell you is to spend time with her. Be her friend.
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You don't have to come out and just flat out ask her. If you do not know her nor have a close relationship with the person then instead you could compliment her and see how she reacts.
Assuming you both aren't real close, Maybe you could ask her to hang out or exchange numbers casually. Get to more about her without coming on too strong about it. Go out to dinner or a movie, Make eye contact with her and smile drop little hints that you are interested in her and again see how she responds. Once you two get to know one another well enough then drop the bomb by asking her if she ever considered dating a girl.
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