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i need to help my friend!
My friend Taylor has been with her boyfriend for about eight months. They started their relationship in the summer and truly fell in love with each other. She lost her virginity to him. She is head over heels in love. Before she dated him, she had only dated one guy and he treated her like shit and mentally abused her about her weight.
When they started college in september, at separate schools, it was hard for them to keep the relationship together. They broke up and got back together and so on. While they were broken up they both hooked up with other people and thats what caused my friend Taylor to pull back and look at the relationship. She told him that they would talk at Thanksgiving and so they did and then they hung out for Christmas and got back together. He gave her an infinity promise ring to show that he was committed to her.
Just as he got back to school he was being distant to her and said that he just couldnt do this. So they both decided to be single yet they still talk all the time and he still tells her he loves her. He doesnt see himself with anyone else. We just went to go visit him and he was great with her but now that they arent physically together he pulls back and acts different. She is totally in love and i cant stop that but I hate to see her like this. I believe that since he is the one she lost her virginity to that she feels connected to him and that translated to love. I know he truly cares for her but he is so up and down and is on depression pills.
I just dont know what to say to her anymore. I want to be honest because she deserves that from me but i really dont know what to say.
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Well tell her to move on and be the bigger person. Because if she keeps letting it happen then thats whats hurting her :) ~Maddogg
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