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Not having him in my life at all hurts more than I could imagine... but he doesn't want to have contact anymore!
Im a girl in high school , its been about 4 weeks since I broke up with my ex. I didn't take it to well until just recently so I decided to txt him we agreed to keep in contact as friends. He called today saying that I have to stop texting him because it was affecting him. After that he send me a text saying it was affecting his new relationship. I feel incredibly stupid and hopeless I thought I was over him. I don't mind anymore loosing him as a boyfriend but not having him in my life at all hurts more than I could imagine I don't want to go back to feeling so bad. Any advice ? i really need somebody
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I know it sucks but it does get easier. My advice is to stay away from him and keep yourself busy. Go do the things that you like to do (a sport, hang out with friends, any hobbies), maybe even learn to do something new. They will keep you occupied and eventually he won't be on your mind anymore. Not preferred by many but I tend to get into my school work more (there's always room for improvement there), it helps a lot especially when I was home and didn't have anything to do
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being close to your ex is usually a bad idea. if you want to have contact with him so badly it is probably becasue you still have feelings for him weather you realize it or not. i know this is not what you want to hear but you should stop talking to him. at least for a while. if he is already ina new realtionship and you two are over, move on. the longer you dont talk to himt he easier it will get. i promise you it seems impossible now but soon enough you wont care to talk to him so much anymore. try moving on with someone new or finding something to get your mind off him.
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I know what it's like to lose that part of your self and to not be able to have him at all. The best thing you can do is to think of him as another wrong boy. and another boy closer to finding the right boy.
I'm not gonna say of it wont hurt and you will get over it tomorrow, Because that is not the truth. It will defintely hurt for a while. and it will definetly take sometime to stop hurting.
What i can suggest is to keep yourself busy. With friends, school or work or both. Maybe start a new hobby. Discover what made you happy before him. When you were single. And be happy for who you are. so what your single now. Be proud!
Xo.Jasmine.<3
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