I would have written "My ex is abusive and violent in nature" and "OMG did I turn him gay?" Thats why you must answer the question directly, not in a 'broad-round-about way' ellaborating on your own assumptions.
Additional info, added Friday February 10 2012, 11:23 pm: Hate mail? Once again you have managed to take my words out of the CONTEXT they are offered in.
I'm just going to end this here and let the higher-level moderators sort this out, or it's just going to end in an e-shouting match.
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