I agree that your boyfriend was likely not planning an attack. It's kind of weird to go out of your way to do it. I was simply letting you know that there are only two reasons why someone who "f***ing hates f****ts" would be posting ads for a male partner. One was pretty awful, so I went with the other as the only plausible explanation.
The only reason I mentioned not worrying about 'turning' him was because I have had a few friends date women, them have those women 'turn' right after. It messed them up, because every one of them got it into their heads that they were somehow insufficient. Totally wrong, of course.
The sexual orientation of an ex doesn't really matter. He's a great guy that you spent some time with, and now he's his on his own exploring himself. Be there for him, but don't pry unless he makes it clear that he wants some help in adjusting to a shift in his orientation.
Just so you know, I'm going to have to report the 1 rating as abuse. My answer wasn't abusive, which is the only reason that a 1 rating would be acceptable. You don't have to agree with my answer. Just be aware that when you post a question in a public forum like this, you're asking for everyone's advice, not just what you want to hear. I took my time to try to help you. I'm not getting paid for this, except in the satisfaction that I get from helping make the world a little better one answer at a time. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
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