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My boyfriend & i arent on the same page. should i just move on without him?
I am a 20 year old female I have a 1 year old daughter with my boyfriend who is 22. We have been together 4 years. He now lives in another city where he is working 2 hours away. He has came to town twice & drinks partys with friends & misses his chance to see us. Then he goes back to work & starts telling me if I'm going to go out and/or cheat on him. He feels guilty & says he does love & miss us. I do not go out. When I am not working or at a class I am with my adorable smart baby girl. We are not on the same page at all. . Oh and ps. We want to move in together when my job ends in April
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Ok, let's break down what you've said:
1. He lives 2 hours away but rarely visits
2.When he does come he chooses partying and drinking over seeing his own daughter
3. Accuses you of doing awful things that just aren't true
4. Apologizes over and over but never does anything to change.
And you want to move in with him? what would you tell your best friend if she gave you the list you just wrote here?
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He does not want to participate right now and it's not fair for you to have to stay home and take care of the baby while he's out partying. Remember, he's the one who got you pregnant and at 20 you may need help. So if he's not going to help you then he really doesn't care so tell him that you need his help and yes if he doesn't start helping move on and he will most likly come back then move in together but I would wait for him if he says he's coming.
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