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how can i fight temptation?
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As with any type of temptation it takes will power. The power to walk away or in this case to say no. I'm not quite sure what you mean by; "temptation in girl and sex??." If you mean you are not ready for sex or you have religious reasons not to have sex before marriage. Then you have to have the power of your convictions to say no.
If your reason is on religious grounds and the girl is wanting sex, tell her. She should understand and respect your beliefs and not try to tease you to having sex with her. If your desires are getting in the way of your beliefs I might suggest you speak with your clergymen.
If your reasons for not having sex are for other reasons; well that is your right too. I would think that in this day an age a girl would respect a boy who wants to date her for reasons other than having sex with her. Most girls today believe that in order to keep a boyfriend they have to give them some type of sexual satisfaction. Knowing that your interests in them are for friendship and companionship should be a breath of fresh air for her.
Of course from the little you wrote I'm guessing here at exactly what you mean or what you are asking. If you write back and can be a little more explicit I might be able to give you a better answer. (you need to write a new question if you do. You can do so in a private question to me)
One other thing you can do is talk with your dad or even you mom about this. As someone old enough to be your grandfather I will tell you what I told my son.
Questions such as the one you asked are never embarrassing to me. Both me and his mother were always available to answer any question he had be it on sex or anything else that he may have to contend with. I'd rather answer a question on sex then have to deal with him getting a girl pregnant or him contracting and STD.
As parents we have all gone through being a teenager and young adult. There is nothing you will face that we haven't faced ourselves. We can help you if you ask the question.
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