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I've "changed too much"
when i was 13 i meant my bestfriend Shawn. he is older than I. we were bestfriends. we started dating when i was 16. when we broke up i lost the one i loved and my best friend. that was over a year ago. after we broke up i reinvented myself. i cut my hair and dyed it blue. i got a job and fell into the "party crowd" i started dating a guy who hit me and he got me into smoking pot and cigarettes. needless to say he cheated on me and i up dumping him. i quit smoking weed and cigarettes. realized i wasn't too smart ha. i am turning 19. i ran into my ex thatg i dated a long time. he said i have changed too much and hates me. even though he drinks does drugs, has dreads, tattoos, and piercings. he is still a good guy but basically said he holds himself above me and i am nothing in his eyes. it hurt so much. i am still the same person i was a year ago. ughhhhh. how do i overcome feeling this way. better yet. i want to show in a mature way i am better than the words spoken me. we've run into eachother a lot lately and he always acts immature and rude. i want to be the bigger person but i still want to feel satisfied with his feeling toward me......help?
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Just ignore him. He's being a jerk probably because deep inside, he knows that you are better than him. Let's face it, you have overcome two addictions that many people can't and he's stuck as he is. Some people choose to show their envy of others by trying to put them down. So next time he tries to bother you, either ignore him or don't take what he says seriously. I hope this helped and good luck :)
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