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Rebecca seems indifferent to these people. Sam asks her a lot of questions about her feelings and personal life, every once in a while. she has friends but the ones mentioned here, has a strange interaction with her. but while we could speculate, why the sudden switch in behavior back and forth with her?
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If Rebecca is indifferent to the situation, what are your concerns?
You don't suggest that Sam is abusive or coercive. You don't suggest there is some sort of risk associated with him being friendly to Rebecca -- so what is the issue you are actually looking to address? Why did you want people here to label these people as 'best' and 'worst' and 'mature' and 'immature'?
What are you looking to achieve?
We COULD speculate till the cows come home about Sam's thoughts and feelings, but why would we? That's just silly. Maybe Sam wants to sleep with one, or all of these women. Maybe Sam has a hero complex and is only interested in being friends with people who appear to need his help. Maybe he just feels guilty for being a jerk to Rebecca. Maybe Sam has been infected by an alien brain slug and that is why his behavior has changed dramatically.
If you really need to know, you could ask Sam.
If you don't know Sam well enough to talk to him about this (and you aren't concerned for anyone's safety in this situation) then you probably just need to butt out.
Give Rebecca, and anyone else involved who is looking to you for advice on how to decode Sam's behavoir, the best advice out there: Tell them to ask Sam.
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