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i'm crushing on my cousins best friend!
i am a 13 year old girl about to be 14 in 5 months. before you judge me, please just read my story. My cousin has a friend and I've only met him only a few times but over winter break i got to see him more and i started to like him, a lot but after a few more months i began to forget about him. Then i saw him over the summer i don't exactly remember why we hugged and talked together,too a lot of times. It just kind of sparked me he is 18 but again i'm not saying i want to date him or do weird things, but i really like him but i have mixed feelings about it. I hear people say all the time saying age doesn't matter when it comes to a 22 yr. old girl dating a 35yr. old guy but when its like this people are so judgemental and say "he just wants to molest you" but he isn't weird like that nor have i heard anyone like that to him. I hate when people say like "you don't know what love is" and "you have no common sense" and if he ddnt like me i would change for him im that "crazy" for him. im also wondering is it because since no "hot" or "cute" guys in my class notice me im just scrambling for something. Am i just stupid? slutty? or "going thru a change"? If your thinking of leaving negative comments DONT EVEN WASTE YOUR TIME.
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You are missing the point, You are a minor. Someone who is 22yrs and 35yrs is legally an adult.
Yes, At age 13 age does matter. In many states the legal age to even consent to sexual intercourse is 16 and that is being having intercourse with people your own age. If a 16 year old decides to have sex with someone 18 it is STILL considered statutory rape. No, You are not stupid, slutty etc. However, I would still advise you to stay away with him. If you were to ever have a relationship with this man you are putting him at high risk for being charged as a pedophile.
Sure, It sounds ridiculous to you but the law is the law and the law also says you are way to young to be dating or thinking of dating someone that is 18 yrs.
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