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am i a slut? why do i crave/have sex so much?
17)F. i lost my virginity to a guy id known a couple weeks when i was 14, he was 19. we had sex just that once. i had a relationship with an 18yr old when i was 15 sex was a big part in the relationship. also 15, i got intimate with a 30yr old married guy with kids :( we did not have sex. }6yrs old 20yr old bf, sex almost 3+ times a day, we lived together. i went clubbing at 16 and went home with a guy i met. found out after sex he was 30 TT'. i had a 17yr old bf this year, we had sex once. and now i have
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I don't like the word "slut"
I'm going to say I think you've made poor judgment by sleeping with several men at not such a young age but much older than you. At 15,16,17 older men are much more likely to take advantage of you because young teenagers are vulnerable and tend to lack common sense.
If you think you have a problem with craving sex, Perhaps you should seek therapy for possibly sex addiction. I also would advise you to tone it down a bit and stop sleeping with everyone you meet. If a guy doesn't respect you enough to be with you, Then don't be with them at all. Selling yourself off isn't going to make a guy like you more nor less. An older man having sex with a minor is statutory rape even if the younger one consents. Giving yourself up for someone to get them to like you more is just degrading and immoral.
Again, try therapy
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First off, don't use the word slut anymore. It's a sexist label meant to shame women for their natural sexual desires.
Craving sex is normal, especially for teenagers. Puberty is a difficult time for most people, their urges sometimes exceed their capacity for adult self control.
As to the rest, honestly your question is just a list of experiences with no emotional or mental context. If you'd like to talk in more detail drop me a question and answer a few questions in the process.
- Describe the relationships with boyfriends, how you interacted with each other and what a day with the two of you was usually like
- Describe the night you went home with the married guy. How did that happen? What was the interaction like
- Describe the process that leads you to decide to have sex with someone. Do you think about it alot? Do you just go with your desires and not think at all?
- Explain why you think guys just want to sleep with you. What about their actions makes you think that? How do guys behave around you? How do they treat you?
- Tell me what you want, what you think you'd like to have so far as relationships or sex go. What is your ideal situation? Why is it ideal?
If you don't want to answer all that, you don't have to, but as it stands your question doesn't have nearly enough information for me to feel like I could offer advice of any kind, I don't know a thing about what's going on in your head. If you do send me a question, give me all the detail you can, the more I know the better my answer.
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