Question Posted Wednesday January 18 2012, 8:29 pm
I'm 14 and came home yesterday, saw blood spots in my underwear, came home today went to the bathroom and saw a strip of dark reddish almost brown wet stuff it wasnt discharge or diarrhea. But I'm not positive if it was or not. Because there wasn't blood running down my leg, I would've seen it. So is it possible to start your period without any indication? Do I wait and if my underwear is ruined do I tell my mom? I think it is my period because when I wiped there was blood. But idk if it is or not.
Mom is waiting, I'm sure, for you to come to her rather then for mom to constantly ask you or to discover for herself when she does the laundry.
Getting your period is a natural part of a woman's life. No different than growing breasts. There is nothing to be embarrassed about and certainly nothing mom doesn't know about. Fact is even dad's know all about a woman's periods and what is needed for a woman to properly care for herself. This is all part of the facts of life when becoming an adult.
Mom and or dad need to know when things are happening to you. When you are not feeling well and what is wrong. If you are experiencing any pains, especially pains in the area of your reproductive organs.
While it is hard for teenagers to believe, we as parents know all about this stuff. It is our primary lot in life to keep our children healthy and safe. We need to know when something is wrong so we can help you make the right decisions to get whatever is bothering you taken care of.
When it comes to our daughters all fathers are a like. No matter how old you are. You can be married and have children of your own. You will always be our little girl and we will always want to protect you for that is who we are as your father. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
blr51697 answered Thursday January 19 2012, 9:47 am: It probably is your period and you should definitely tell your mom rather her finding out for herself. She is there to help you and whats whats best for you. Do what she says and take this situation as like your maturing into a women.
hope i helped.
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