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As confused as a poor puppy.
Okay so. There's this guy, he's a year older than me. I'm only 13 so my feelings are just a crappy pile of stuff. I haven't seen him yet but he texts me, a lot. He calls me darling and those stuff and loves saying the words "Will you go out with me?" over and over again. I'm confused of what he wants from me because he always compliments me as "beautiful" and begs me not to leave him. I tried asking him what point he's explaining but all he said was to go "bonding" and stuff. He's a guy, i'm a girl. He's got an ex and i'm afraid i'll be one of them soon. WHAT DO I DOO?
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I think you take this relationship very slowly, as slowly as you feel comfortable with. After all, you haven't even met him in person! Texts can be very difficult to read sometimes, we can read different things into them very easily, not knowing the person who sends it makes it even harder.
If you decide to meet him, could it be somewhere you needn't be alone with him if you son't want to? A party or picnic with friends of your own age
perhaps, for your security; even if he is above board, it can help to have friends around on a first date, keep the conversation flowing.
You don't say if your parents are aware of your text-friendship with this boy, it would be a good idea to keep them informaed in case something goes wrong.
Meanwhile, I'd keep my options open, continue with your normal life, enjoy yourself with your friends as you usually do, go out with other boys if you really want to.
This next bit might be something you don't want to hear but its important you know the risks you might be facing if you meet this boy. Don't tie yourself down to anything with him until you know more about him and his motives. Possibly he is what he says, a young boy looking for friendship and/or love.
He could just as easily be a 33 year-old man with an unhealthy interest in young girls.
I hope this helps, let me know how you get on? Please be careful and good luck x.
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I'm assuming by not seeing him you mean you've never met him.
I agree it's a confusing situation, I was in a similar one when I was your age.
It seems he's toying with you and your emotions - he may just like the power he gets from it, or maybe he really likes you but is afraid to show himself in person from low self-esteem. It's hard to tell.
I advise to ask again what it is he wants from you. Or to meet up at school once you find out who he is and more about him.
I hope this helps to some affect.
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