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He wants me to go out with him, even though he has a girlfriend he says they don't get along... now he wants to keep us a secret?
Okay, me and this guy he is 15 im 13 and im really confused he broke up wit me in august and it is now jan, he keeps calling me saying he loves me and i'm beautiful then he tells me about some other girls how they are beautiful he tells me everything them i tell him to go for them and then he says something bad about them now, i do not want to go out with him cause he has a girlfriend he always calls me and telling me that him and his girlfriend are not working out.. okay now get this he told me not to tell anyone about our conversations and stuff and my friend invited him to go to the movies with me and her and he tells her it would be to awkward... i remember asking him if he wanted to hangout and he said at your house? i said yeah sure and he said alright , now don't think i'm just stupid i no whats going on i just need to no your opinion and 1 more thing since he didn't wanna go to the movies with me i went with some other guy and now , he is all booty hurt and mad ? i don't get it tell me what i should do!! please
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RUN and RUN fast
The guy isn't interested in you, He is obviously flat out lying right though his teeth and his "We are not working out line" is a way of manipulation.
Guess what, The guy is willing to cheat on his girlfriend......What the hell makes you think you even stand a chance even if he were single? For one the guy IS IN A RELATIONSHIP even if he insist the relationship isn't working out. Guess what, He is 99% of the time lying to you. Don't let yourself be sucked into his twisted game, You do not owe it too yourself to be a doormat because that is exactly what the guys intentions are.
You are not stupid, Simple truth; You are a young teenager and most young teenagers are vulnerable and will believe almost anything.
The guy is playing a game and is sucking you right into it. A guy that wants to be with you should be a guy that is available and respects you. Not someone that is waiting for your permission to use you as a doormat. You are only stupid if you allow yourself to be, Don't let him manipulate you
Also think about it for a second "Secret Girlfriend" Why else do you think he wants to keep you a secret?....He wants to use you. He doesn't want his girlfriend to know that he is thinking about cheating on her. You are not a booty call
The guy is a loser, Cut all contact and stay away from him
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RUN!! The guy is bad news and class A jerk. Think about it he has a girlfriend and then he wants to hang out and you be a "secret girlfriend" He's crazy ;) I would cut off all contact and let him know he makes you uncomfortable. Certainly don't hang out alone let alone period.
He also knows if those secret conversations come out to his girlfriend that she'll have his head. He must think you aren't too bright or something if he thinks you would be cool with that. He's pretty stupid to assume that.
If it were you in her shoes you would hope that she would tel you what this guy is trying to do. I think you both should get together and teach this guy a lesson as what he's doing isn't right.
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