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Do you think she likes me? What can i say to her?
this is gonna be fairly long... well, 2 years ago I went to a friends birthday party, there were a few people there, i didn't really care for much of his friends most of them annoyed me, so I was sitting alone on his porch when he was with some of his friends, and this girl there came up to me and tried starting a conversation with me... She told me her name, I was really shy so I didn't say much she kind of stopped talking to me after that. Later that night we were all sitting around a fire, she was sitting beside me, she would put her elbow on my knee and look into my eyes and i was acting extremely shy, one of the guys there asked her if she liked me and she said something along the lines of "No, i just like his reaction when i look at him" She also kissed me that night, one of the guys there dared her too, it wasn't really a kiss just a peck. I couldn't stop thinking about her throughout my freshmen and sophomore year, and i've always hated myself for how stupid i acted that night. I didn't really see her much then, though when i did she never really seemed to notice me. Now I'm a junior and she's a senior this is probably the last time i'll actually get to talk to her, i see her alot more in school, i pass her a few times in the hallway, and i have lunch with her, I used to notice her looking at me at lunch from her table, our tables are practically beside each other, she would look at me for a while, then turn away. I really wanted to talk to her, but couldn't really find the time, shes with her friends at lunch, and i don't have time in between classes (my classes are back and forth to both ends of the school takes a long time to get there). i noticed she hasn't looked at me as often lately, she still kind of acknowledges me, but not much, and i don't want to **** this up with her again, i already feel so stupid for keeping this bottled up for 2 years which is partly why I'm even more scared to talk to her. I really want to talk to her, i just don't know what exactly to say, how to start a conversation. I'm still extremely shy and i hate that, now i feel im just rambling... So anyway, how do i talk to her? what could i say? I really need advice i cant stop thinking about her, thanks :D
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Since it's been so long, it's doubtful she feels the same way you do. She may have liked you at one point, but her feelings have probably faded. However, that doesn't mean they can't come back. It definitely sounds like she still thinks you're attractive if she's always looking at you. Casually approach her at lunch sometime when she isn't surrounded by her friends. Maybe if she stood up to get food or something. Ask her how she's been and such, and if she'd like to catch up sometime. If she says yes, get coffee or something comfortable. If she says no, there are other fish in the sea!
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I find that the best approach when confessing your feelings to someone is to "Jump into the pool" instead of "slowly walking in". You typically want to run away when you go in slowly, but if you jump right in, it is over and done with and you typically feel much more relieved than you would other wise. You must also remember that even if she doesn't feel the same as you, it doesn't mean to give up. If it doesn't work with her, there are plenty of others. Good luck, and be strong ^_^
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