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damage control after I flirted with another man
i have a boyfriend. my boyfriend is very strict on me with other guys. i flirted with another guy a lot on vacation. i sat on his lap and kinda held his hand.. pretty much was a huge tease. if my bf knew we could very easily be over. i know i shouldn't have flirted but its too late now. the problem is that another kid who goes to my bf's school was on the vacation and knows that i was flirting with that guy. my bf is gonna meet that kid from his school because he's trying to join his frat. should i contact the kid from my boyfriends school and ask him not to say anything? or should i leave it alone and hope he doesnt mention it. i know that if my bf does leave me i probably deserve it, but that would really not be preferable. what do ya think i should do?
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I think you need to be honest and just tell him yourself. There's nothing worse then someone you care about that lies to you and doesn't even tell you what happened. I'm sure he would rather hear it from you then someone else. There was a similar incident that happened between my boyfriend and I. I came out and told him the truth. He told me he was glad that I told him and he didn't hear it from someone else. You don't know what the outcome might be, but its best to just tell him yourself. Good luck and I hope everything works out!
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The best thing to do would tell your bf yourself before someone else does. If you tell him yourself atleast your being honest and if someone else tells him hes going to think your untrustworthy and that your hiding things from him. However i do understand that you dont want to tell him but i do recommend you tell him i mean you could ask this kid not to tell but i mean eventually the truth will come out.
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