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How do i get over my first?
17/f
It's not good that I have feelings for my 1st especially now that he has a girlfriend. What can I do to get over him? This needs to happen fast before I get my heart broken AGAIN.
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I hate to break it to you but you're going to get your heart broken again and maybe it'll be by another guy. You can't help getting your heart broken. By dating someone you're taking a risk of getting your heart broken. It's a possibility, and never is ever for certain. Think about the qualities you don't like in him it helps me. For my ex I just thought about everything that I didn't feel was good. I knew I could also do better and I also listened to empowering music that made me feel like I could do better. I did so much better!! You'll get there it'll take you a bit but remember you'll look back and laugh and heck you might not even remember his name. Think about you and take care of you!
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You need to acknowledge that the relationship you both had was nothing more then an experience. Sometimes getting over someone takes time, Your ex moved on and you need to do also. Once you learn to accept that the relationship is over then in time it will get easier. The guy is in a relationship, You need to except that. It may not happen overnight but it will in time. In the meantime I recommend trying to stay away from him. If you are peeking in on his facebook BLOCK him. As long as you allow yourself to update on how he is doing in his life then you will continue to allow yourself to dwell on it and you will never get over it. If you are friends with him BREAK off the contact, The worst thing you can do is stay in contact with him when you are trying to move on. Hang out with your friends, Spend time with family and before you know it you will learn that you do not need the guy in your life.
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