Thanks a lot.. i saw him today, i just got home and jumped online to write you.
We were in a restaurant with my sister, his friend, and my sisters boyfriend, so my sister and her boyfriend get up to go get something and he sits next to me, and he does the whole "can i get your hand gesture" idk how to explain it.. so i got all nervous, like I dont know what i was suppposed to do!!! tell him no? that wud be just soooo akward!! :S so then he started intermingling our fingers together and stuff, in a passionate way, and since we have the whole "were married " joking thing he kept caling me his wife as a joke and stuff, but i dont know... i tried being sneaky and asked him if he still talks to his ex and he told me he still does just not much, like once or twice every week or so.. which was a lie im guessing =/ like i dont know what to do.. i cant just say no to him that wud be so akward :s and i dont want to hold his hand if hes not boyfriend! =/ i get that ofcourse he still cares for his ex and all thats just normal they were together for 2 years, and grew up together.. but what am i to him? and i cant ask him. its not like that between us yet =/ so what do i do? sorry if this is long!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mannequin24 answered Saturday January 7 2012, 1:29 pm: Sorry it took me so long to answer. If you don't feel comfortable with anything he does or says because you aren't dating, then all you do is kinda pull away. I know it might be weird, but it's important that you don't let him control you like that. Even if he thinks it's okay and he's not doing anything weird. If he asks you what's wrong, just tell him that you don't feel comfortable with it, and if he's a good person, he'll back off. That's another way to tell good character which is important. If you a tell a guy that you're uncomfortable with something, they'll either back off (like a respectable guy) or they'll bother you (and then you can tell you're too good for the guy). This isn't just for this situation; it can work for any relationship, so just try to remember this. Other than that, there's not much else you can do except keep me updated. Good luck :) [ mannequin24's advice column | Ask mannequin24 A Question ]
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