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I just want him to treat me like he use to
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. For the last 6 months we have been arguing a lot about big things and petty things. He has currently been away for a month and hasn't Once emailed me saying anything affectionate when he is bk in less that a week. I'm so sick of him making me feel like shit all the time he talks down to me so much but I know he can be nice. He's said before that we just go round in circles and has tarted to breakup with me but then I get upset and he ends up saying 'well I do want to just not when we argue and nothing ever changes ' I don't know whether he does it for s reaction or what? He dosnt seem bothers by anything I do! I just don't know how to act anymore I want to vd with him I just want him to treat me like he use to. I've already said this to him but he just says I over react of says something harsh and blunt. Do j make the effort of what? I've tried everything!!
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I have to be honest with you it's not going to be the same way it was when you first started dating. I know you want it to be but it won't be. You have to be realistic about that! As much as you hope that things will be that way it won't, the 'honeymoon' phase is over. The further and further you go into a relationship there are going to be challenges and tests against your relationship and it's how you both handle it.
Let's be honest when it comes to knowing what we want guys aren't really great at that. However we girls don't make it easy for them because we don't say what we want. It's battle after battle!
My boyfriend and I had this problem of communication for awhile and then we finally fixed it. We finally figured out that we just need to tell each other what is wrong when there is something wrong. We have an open line of communication and it makes me feel comfortable when I can just tell him when something is bothering me. For example our anniversary is coming up and he said he didn't have anything planned. He was joking about it and laughing and it broke my heart a bit. I want him to plan it I want him think about it because it shows how much he cares. Well I talk to him and told him it upset me about what he said and he told me he was kidding. He told me he had something planned all along and that I need to relax.
My point is you need to think about what you want I mean really think about what you want from this relationship. Then sit down with your boyfriend and have a serious conversation about what you need out of this relationship. Set something things up such as 'date nights' once a week. Or maybe dress up and go out just for the hell of it. Tell him what you need! I hope this helps and I hope it works out!
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Sometimes relationships just don't work out, People grow apart or we simply loose interest. You were apart for awhile and he didn't even bother to act like he missed you? Sounds like the guy has lost interest in the relationship. If you two took a break and nothing changed between the two of you then it's time to end it and move on. You shouldn't stick around for someone who doesn't appreciate you.
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