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Would you trust your fiance to want girl / boy friends ?
Ok, so I been with my fiance for 2 years we.have a family together, he is recently divorced and now wants to start a new life, he never had.friends I didn't know of and.now wants me to except him having girlfriends cause his ex.didn't allow it. so how would you feel r do you.think its okay.for him to start.something new like this. Or guys how would you feel of your girlfriend all of a sudden wanted boyfriends. And your not even.apart of their social life. Example.facebook!
Would you feel shut out?
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If you're talking friends in which are girls, then yes I believe you should. If he hasn't done anything to ruin your trust when it comes to other women I dont see a reason as to why you should condemn him from being able to have friends... until he breaks your trust I think it is more than perfectly reasonable for him to have friends, male or female. As long as it is an apporiate relationship then why not?
A man might automatically take the fact that you dont want him to have female friends as that you do not trust him, and in a relationship.. That HURTS to feel like your partner doesn't trust you and kinda lacks respect for you for thinking he'd even go there.
So yeah long answer short, Unless he has done something to make you question his motives, unless he has mishandled and broke your trust, then you really shouldn't deny him of having friends. period.
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I'm a bit confused on your question
Girlfriends meaning friends that are girls or a relationship?
Now 2 different answers;
1, If you are referring to him having friends that are girls, Then yes it is perfectly okay as people are allowed to have friends despite their gender. This man is your fiance and if you want things to work out you need to respect and trust one another. If he is being sneaky and not letting others be aware of the fact that he is engaged to you then I would start to become concerned. Maybe sit down with him and let him know that you don't think it's right that he is keeping your relationship a secret from his friends. There should be boundaries when it comes to "Friends" you want others to be aware of your relationship but you don't want to be up his ass constantly and wanting to know every little detail that goes on in his life. If you are worried then talk to him about it, Communication will get you far.
2, If you are referring to a relationship dating wise, Then of course it's not okay. It's never okay to cheat or have affairs despite engagement/relationship/marriage it is most certainly not a moral thing to do and it is wrong.
The man is allowed to have friends, As long as he knows his boundaries then all should be just fine.
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Yes i would.
sorry for my short awnser but that was your question
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