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He Called Me A Tease!
I'm 17, my guy friend were talking and he called me a tease yesterday and today. I think he's joking we Ushually mess around about stuff but yesterday I told him me and my friend made dancing videos and he asked to see and I said maybe, then when I have him the choice of seeing them or not and he said u don't have to show him I said "fine then it's settled:P" and he said I was a tease. And then tonight it was raining here and not at his house and he said he wished it would rain there so I told him he could just come stay here every night (he knows I'm joking) and I said said but then you probably wouldn't be thinking about the rain(; and he said but that's just a big tease and I asked how and he said how isn't it? And I said it's not, and he just said never mind. Idk what exactly he means, and if it's a bad thing. I know why a tease is but shouldn't that mean it makes him want something more?
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I don't think some girls understand what its like for a guy to get teased by them.
When a girl teases you, its usually the sign to a guy that she likes him, and wants him to be sexually interested in her (even if its not explicit, such as with the things you are saying).
I can guarantee you that everything you are doing is making him want you more and be more interested in you. But at the same time it can often be sexually frustrating, not fun, because when there is no follow through the guy is left with blue balls basically.
On the other hand, when girls tease me, I often respond by shrugging it off, or acting like I don't care all that much, as a way of reverse teasing, and making myself seem more desirable and cool.
If you like this guy, keep doing what you're doing, but eventually you are going to want to make things more clear, because sometimes guys start to think that you really are just teasing and aren't actually interested in them.
But if you don't want him I suggest you stop, because it will just make things very complicated.
Good luck.
xChaos
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