I am starting to like my guy friend but I don't want to ruin anything!!!!
Question Posted Thursday December 29 2011, 6:47 pm
I have been friends with him for a year, he is real nice and funny. I text him all the time and real enjoy talking and hanging with him. I sent a forward that said if you could ask me a question what would it be? He asked if I like him I don't want to say yes because I don't want to ruin are friend ship and I am super shy about this kind of things. I haven't even told my friends yet. But part of me wants to say yes. I don 't know how to deal with this.I am a 13 year old girl.
Thanx
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SwimxRun answered Thursday January 5 2012, 4:41 pm: I am a 13 year old girl too! I can relate and see it all the time! Almost every best friend guy and girl friendship i have seen has ended a relationship. That's not bad at all! With me and my guy best friend, i understand. Don't you love that you can get advice and tell him anything without feeling incecure because your not going out so its not awkward. You can talk to him about anything! But then you started to have a warm feeling to him. Totally understandable! Its hard to describe why though.
But back to your question. With the forward and he said Do you like me? Tough onee..Don't be like noo cause he will be like ok then, because he may like you. Don't say yes directly cause he will feel awkward and what if he doesnt like you which he so should!
Be fun and totally casual and fun. It works everytime[:
As a 13 year old girl who can relate i would say like
"Of course i do<3 Your an amazing friend(;" That way it works either way if he likes you are not. It includes:
Of course i do-he will think alright she likes me<3 woooh!
Your an amazing friend- she likes me as a friend
He wont really know if you really like like him or as a friend and your being funn.
Feel free to change it up but it works all the time for me :D
sorry this is so longg [ SwimxRun's advice column | Ask SwimxRun A Question ]
Jasmine23 answered Monday January 2 2012, 9:39 pm: I agree with the previous advicer,. If he is asking you it's either because he has an interest in you or he can tell. *prob can't tell* But i would definetly tell him you like him if you do. If your friendship stays together then it was meant to be. [ Jasmine23's advice column | Ask Jasmine23 A Question ]
Erinn_the_bamf answered Thursday December 29 2011, 10:16 pm: You should say yes. He probably asked because he likes you. Even if it turns out he doesn't feel the same, as long as you'r relaxed about the situation you can remain friends. [ Erinn_the_bamf's advice column | Ask Erinn_the_bamf A Question ]
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