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Self Esteem Problems


Question Posted Thursday December 15 2011, 1:00 am

I'm 17/female
I think one of my major problems with my confidence is my smile, I do not have a normal pretty smile like everyone else and we can't afford braces. So i think by that most people think im ugly or something and dont want to talk to me. im skinny and i have a long face with naturally curly hair and i dont really do anything with my hair i just leave it down and curly all the time. its medium length and i dont htink that goes with my face shape much.. so idk what to do bout that. i have small boobs and not the greatest body. im just small and skinny. im 5'8. i just dont really know what to do to make myself more attractive to other people i guess. i know my smile isnt going to help anything because thats whats ushually attractive about a person. but i have a great personality im told just i guess thats not what matters at first. help if possible.


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AdviceMistress answered Thursday December 15 2011, 3:09 pm:
I think yiou're being way to hard on yourself. Think of the positive things and work with what you have. For years and years I have complained about things I want to change about myself but now I embrace them. For example my friends are all shorter than I am and I always wished I was petite like my girlfriends. I finally realized that I should embrace being tall, I have long legs that people would die for. No one is perfect but I'm sure you're being way to hard on yourself. Think of the good qualities and stop putting yourself down.

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BalletArtFreek766 answered Thursday December 15 2011, 8:20 am:
Dont worry about what you dont like about yourself, look at all the good things:] your 5'8 so in the near future you could be a model:) and as for your smile, it doesnt matter what your teeth look like, as long as the smile on your face is happy, it doesnt matter what it looks like. and you have hair, all hair is beautiful and not many people have it at all. also, your only 17 (as am i) and when your a teenager you still have time to grow into your body. so you have alot of time to grow even more beautiful. and dude you dont need boobs theres so many models who dont have boobs at all. and sorry i talk so much . dont let anyone tell you that your not beautiful, as long as your heart is beautiful nothing else matters. just when you go shopping go alone, spend about an hour trying different things on that you would never try on usually. and try and find something thats new that looks good on you:) find a cool thrift store! cheap and almost new stuff:) i love thrift stores:) good luck<3333

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