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Good or bad kisser ?!
Hey Shay! (that rhymed) :P
How are you? I've been reading the questions people post and the advice your giving them.. WOW your good, i was hoping you might help me out? Im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17, he's kissed girls a couple of times, but i havent even had my first kiss yet.. Hes got experience and i dont, We're going on a date after exams and we havent seen each other for a while, so i think he would kiss me.. I would like to kiss him back if he does, but i dont know if im a good or bad kisser, PLEASE help me out here, i really love this guy.. He means the world to me and i just want this night to be perfect, How do i know if im a bad kisser, and how to be a good kisser if i really am a bad one.. Thanks a million :)
-Manar
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I'm not Shay, but I think I could help you out, until Shay gets here, (:
There is no way to tell that you'll be a good/bad kisser until you actually kiss someone, and they judge it. It sucks, I know. It makes you even more nervous!
But from past experience, I've learned to do these few things;
1) I learned the more nervous you are, the more sloppy and unattractive the kiss is. So when that night comes, just make sure you are totally relaxed, and keep calm.
2) Let him take controll. Kissing is instinct; when you have someone guide you, it becomes easier. Just follow his lead.
3) Use your hands.
*Hand motion during kissing can also help with making you seem confident. If you want a simple, romatic kiss, place your hand on the side of his neck, on the side of his cheek, or even have your fingers run up the back of his head, into his hair*
4) If you notice that its more than just a peck kiss, try sucking on his bottom lip; nibbling on his bottom lip.
5) If there is tongue involved- all you do is just stick your tongue in his mouth, and move it around; its kind of like tongue wrestling. [Personally, I hate kissing like this; but most guys do it]
*If thats the case, than some guys like it if you suck on their tongue while you guys are kissing*
I'm sure if this boy loves you as much as you love him, than he won't see a problem in your kissing. He will still love you; If he sees something wrong with the way you kiss; tell him "well, its my first kiss; so what could I do to make it better?" Tell him to teach you! Guys love to feel like their in controll, so teaching you how to kiss, will not turn him off, but make him excited! Some girls adapt to how other guys kiss, and once again thats kind of instinct. Just go with the flow.
Good Luck!
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