Question Posted Saturday December 10 2011, 10:00 pm
Okay, so i am an 8th grade girl
In the 7th grade I met this really nice guy who was funny, smart, and sweet. over the year we became almost bes friends. I think he likes me b/c he always waits for me at my locker, passes me gum during class, and sometimes walks me to class. Recently, he told me hes moving away to switzerland :(, and i really like him. im afraid to tell him in case he doesnt like me and it ruins our friendship forever. Im not the prettiest or most outgoing girl, so i would not be okay with just asking him just because i can. im really stuck and scared im gonna lose my best friend :(
Therefore it would be hard to maintain a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Now if he was only moving for a couple of months and than comimg back, I'd really tell him how you felt; but if he is moving there for years & years (possibily the rest of his life) than there really isn't any point in worrying over losing his friendship. Chances are once he moves, you guys will barely talk. I know thats tough to hear because he's your bestfriend, I've been there, and it really sucks; but its a part of life. Just tell him how you feel and let him know that you care for him; and regardless of how he feels, won't even matter.
He's moving away; there isn't any point in worrying about being with him; it will not work. Save yourself the heart ache and pain; and just remain as close as friends as you can;; [ nascarfan1987's advice column | Ask nascarfan1987 A Question ]
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