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Omg! My boyfriend wont put his arm around me! What do I do My boyfriend loves me but hes afraid to show it. How do I get him 2?
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showing someone you care about them and have feelings for them is called PDA (Public Display of Affection). PDA is a part of every relationship.. unless you 2 are uber shy and never want a social life and only spend time with each other and nobody else (and literally i mean nobody else) then you're gonna have to show PDA in some way.
There are different types of PDA. Putting his arm around you or even holding your hand are the small types of PDA. Bigger types would be kissing in public, making out in public, or getting it in.. which is very provocative so be careful with that..
talk to him man to man and say "hey i know you're afraid, but every relationship goes through something like this and its normal. Nobody is going to care if you put your arm around me." then tell him how you feel.. like "I would be so happy if you put your arm around me because it lets other people know that i'm only yours and you're only mine".
just be straight up honest with him, and if he's a little whimp who is too scared to hold your hand, then he needs to grow up and you need to find a man. ]
talk to him tell him to show you that he loves you
by puttig his arm araound you ]
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