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Sex reassignment costs
I am a twenty one year old m2f transgendered female. I have been living full time as a woman since I turned 18 . I started HRT almost two years ago, had a breast job last year, went thru feminization surgery six months ago and lost my job one month ago due to the current economic climate. I was a full time secretary for the past three years. It was my plan to complete my journey by undergoing sex reassignment surgery in late 2012. As you can imagine this surgery is very expensive and is not covered by health insurance. I've considered my options should I not find a new job soon. It boils down to putting off the surgery for a future date unknown or find other methods to fund it should I remain unemployed. I am considering the sex trade industry as a means of employment. I know I could pull it off working as a topless dancer. You can not tell by looking at me that I am anything other than a female. I am also considering working as call girl. I fully understand the negative aspects of each however to be completely honest, to date I have been with so many different men that it would not bother me at all to do either however I am looking to get some feedback on this.
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I won't go into how you are thinking about making a living other to say that I think topless dancing is safer in all ways than being a call girl.
As for the sex reassignment surgery itself. Have you considered having this surgery done outside of this country. I have seen documentaries where this surgery was done in Canada and Bangkok for far less than it costs here in the USA.
I cannot vouch for the medical care or the surgical talents of the doctors in Thailand.It is my understanding they lead the world in this type of surgery.
Just thought I would pass this along.
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I have a friend who is FTM transgendered, so I've learned a lot about the struggles involved.
As for being a topless dancer, it's your body and your choice. You would need to make sure that you're working for good people and that the environment is safe. At some clubs, girls are pressured into doing more than they're comfortable with or more than is legal. There's also a long history of violence against sex industry workers in general.
There's a big difference between having sex because you want to and having sex because you're getting paid to, both emotionally and with regards to safety. It's easy to fall into the trap of easy money, but nothing comes free.
By having sex for pay, you're putting yourself at risk for violence, murder, arrest or being infected with an STI. You don't know the history of the person you're with, and you won't have protection in case things turn sour and he turns out to be a nutjob.
From what my friend has dealt with, I know a little bit about what it's like to live in a body that's not yours. I know it's awful, and the instinctive reaction is to do whatever is necessary to get into your own body. Heck, I know someone who was desperate enough that she sold a kidney (no kidding) to help pay for her surgery in Thailand. Just remember that you lived for 18 years in one shape, and you'll have a healthier body and mind if you can hang on for a little while longer. If you're really having trouble dealing with it, you may want to try seeking a support group or counselling with someone who is an expert in trans issues. You're still young, and you have your whole life to make this journey.
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