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i dont know how to fell about my bestfreinds ex
im 15/F. okay me and this boy i know have been getting really close and flirting all the time and friday we we were out with our freinds and wen everyone had gone home we spent 2 and a half hours just talking then he walked me home and we kissed but now i feel bad about it as he is my best freinds ex they only went out for 3 weeks and the relationship ended well she has moved on and been with her boyfreind for about 9 months now but i dont know wether its okai or not for me to like her ex please help!!!!!!!!!
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You know, usually bestfriends ex's are off limits, but in this case I believe it could be different. You say they only dated for 3 weeks, and that she has been with her new guy for 9 months. Clearly, her and her ex weren't together long enough to build "Love", therefore I believe it would be okay.
Personally, I don't know what type of person your bestfriend is. She could get mad, or she could care less. Like the person below me, I'd talk to her. Tell her upfront how you feel and let her know that you wanted to talk to her about it because her friendship means more than a boy would, and tell her to be honest about how she feels about it.
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Your friend's exes are off limits. It's just the known rule you may like this guy but it was your friend's ex. If you really like maybe talk to her about it and see how she feels about it. If not then you need to respect her wishes and back off the guy.
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