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What should I do to keep her away?


Question Posted Monday November 21 2011, 7:48 am

Ok well I'm just going to get to the point, one of my friends Carla(changed her name), asked another "friend" of mine "do you like her boyfriend?" To which she replied "Yes! But don't tell her this I think he likes me better than her and I'm way better..." etc. Etc. Well i asked her if that was true the next day and she immediately replied "No! I was just kidding!" Your probably thinking "well just firgive her and move on". Well one of my other friends Julie(also changed), is on the same bus as the girl, and she told me that the girl had been saying the same crap for the past 3 weeks. I asked my boyfriend if he likes her, and he immediately said no and told me that "I was the only girl for him". That was cleared up but the one girl is still trying to take him from me, basicly actin like a slut, showing clevage in front of him, always touching his hair and back(which really pisses me off). So what do I do to stop her from doing this? Thanks XOXO and thanks for the advice earlier, It made me feel so much better.

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Carriebeca answered Monday November 21 2011, 8:10 am:
It's clear that you believe and trust your boyfriend when he says he doesn't like this girl.
She sounds very insecure, fishing for another girl's boyfriend when there's no hope of him turning to her. Has she ever had a boyfriend of her own?
There's a saying - when you've changed everything about a situation and it's still a problem, the only thing left to change is the way you look at it.
She's not a rival for your boyfriend, as she doesn't stand a chance there. Could you try being nice to her, maybe even being a good friend, offering advice on clothes (giving you some control over that cleavage!) and make-up? Ask other friends to come to a clothes swapping party, you might all become true friends.
Glad I could help last time, hope this helps too, let me know how it goes? Take care of yourself.

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