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Why dosent he text me anymore ?
So i have been seeing this guy for a little over a month. In the beginning he would text me everyday now he rarely ever texts me first. But when he hang out everything seems to be the same. He have a great time and always make plans to hang out the very next day but i wont hear from him sometimes. Call me stuburn but i HATE texting a guy first. i feel like its the males responsibility.Am i just over thinking this ?? sometimes we will go whole days without speaking to one another
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He is probably thnking you guys will always hang out with eachother that he doesnt need 2 txt or call you ;
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I think its because he is tired of making an effort to talk to you first. Even though you are stubborn and feel like the guy should text you first, it doesn't necessarily go like that. You have to see things from his point of view too. He probably thinks, "Well, I haven't texted her because I wanna see how long it takes for her to text me first. Why should I always have to text her just to speak to her? Does she not care to talk to me?" I'm sure he thinks if you really wanted to talk, you would text him. Therefore when he texts you, he may feel like he's bothering you because you aren't puttin in as much effort as he is.
You know, I agree with what your saying about how it should be the guys responsibility. But after he proves himself over the first couple of weeks, you guys should take turns texting each other. One day he texts you first, the next day you text him. You have to show your intersted in him, so he doesn't stray away.
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