|
Mind games to use on a guy who is a player and sleeps around a lot?
Hey! On Saturday night i got with this guy, his name is Luke. After we kissed maybe half an hour later he hooked up with another girl, and so i hooked up with a guy he knows..just for fun. At the end of the night all our friends ended up going to someone's house for drinks and the whole night he was kissing me and stuff, and he asked me to go back to his house and i said no. (I dont just drop my knickers for anybody)
Luke is really attractive, he can get whoever he wants whenever he wants, and he knows it. He's known for sleeping around quite a bit.. So i want to try and get him to like me and see me more than just a toy he can use.. Already a bonus because he told his best friend that i'm beautiful. Does anybody know what kind of "mind games" i can play to make this happen? Like play hard to get or something? If it doesnt work out im not going to be upset, I just think we'd be good together and i want to see to what extent i can make it happen. Im going to a nightclub on Thursday with my girl friends and he will be there with his friends.
Thank you!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
DROP HIM! You need to make yourself unavailable for a while. If you really like him, then let him chase you. And......why do you want to be with someone that sleeps around. Remember you said he thinks your beautiful. Then act like a PRIZE! Only the one tha is worthy should be with BEAUTY! Is he worthy of such a place in your life? I think you already know the answer to that question.
]
Hm, I don't know if what I have in mind will help you, or if it's even what your looking for.
But hey, its worth a shot? Lol.
Mind games are bad, if he ever found out, he would be furious. So lets just call it reverse-psychology. (:
Now, you definitely have to play hard to get. Being a tease would also help this. Let him know your goodies are a prize, and not just a free sample. You can't always be in a kinky situation, and expect him not to get arroused. Maybe you should ask him to go out for a drink, or maybe to dinner to get to know each other. Keep to your belief's and let him know what your looking for in a man, and see if he has any intentions of settling down to just one girl, and not three or four.
As of Thursday, make eye contact with him while your dancing. I wouldn't make out with him, let alone kiss him. If he comes at you wanting to kiss, than give him a sexy look and just smile and walk away. While your walking away, kinda look back at him, and flash a smile. This will drive him wild.
Chances are this guy will not change though. In order for him to change, to be a committed man, than he has to do it on his own; But theres an old saying "For every player, is a woman who will make him change". So lets have our fingers crossed that, thats you! (:
If you need anything else girl, don't be a stranger.
You can email me at xxbbyxitsxyouxx@aol.com
Good Luck!
xoxo*
]
More Questions: |