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Not prude, just unexperienced
So I have been in plenty of relationships before, but never have I made out with a guy yet. But now I have this really amazing boyfriend, and I don't know what to do! We have been dating for like three months now, and I know hes going to try to make out soon, but I am SOO nervous. I dont want to do anything wrong because I really like him. Can someone pleaseeeee give me advice!! Oh and I am female and 15.
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make out with him its really not that big of a deal he will be real gentle with you trust mee
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Hey there!
The first fact is that if he was a serious boyfriend who really loves you for you then he wouldn't care about performing well during sex.
Secondly, if you're nervous and having doubts then you're not ready to sleep together yet. Just explain this to him, and like I said above, if he really loves you he'd respect you're decision.
Everyone is nervous for their first time, he may well be to. Do waht comes natural and don't pretend to be anything more. Guys really respect girls who are confident in life.
My suggestion would be this. Personally I think three months, especially at 15 is too early to have sex. This is because I don't find that 3 months is enough time to form enough trust and build up the commitment to each other.
Never feel rushed into having sex just because everyone else is doing it. And when it happens? Just be yourself-no one can ask anymore of you, and be honest with each other to-discussing your fears about sex makes the bond closer, and the is important as theres so much more to relationship than sex.
Good luck :)
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Can I just say, I remember when this was me!
You know when I first dated a guy and things, we were sitting down etc etc, I looked away , I must of been watching tv or something and as I looked up, he just suddenly kissed me, and it goes from there.
You don't know when it is first going to happen, it's funny, it's when you least expect it!
I guarantee you nothing will go wrong, and he will be nervous too. But it's a great experience and there is no need to be worried as there is no right way of doing things. Making out for the first time is such an adrenaline rush, and you don't need to be nervous at all. Just keep close to him, kiss, hug him loads, he will soon pick up you'd like to makeout and then that will essentially give him the boost to make the "move"
good luck!
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Aweee cutte :P
Just breath hon,. it will be perfect for the little fact that it will be with him. Don't worry about it just let it happen. it will be very cute. and will be at the perfect moment.
hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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