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I feel like I'm doubting "us".
My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months but have been friends for a long time. I tell him everything and we are practically best friends. He treats me like gold. He is so sweet and appreciates me and can take me at my worst and my best. In the past I've been heartbroken very badly and abandoned, but he always assures me he'll never leave. I had a hard time believing that at first but somehow now I know he's here to stay. He says we'll only break up if I say the word. I think I fall in love with him all over again everyday!! He and I spend so much time together and it's like he's my other half.
Every Friday I go with him from school to his house. His parents don't come home until about 5, and we get to his house around 3. His parents are very laidback so they let us do what we want as long as we keep it light, just cuddling and kissing. But usually we take a nap together in his bed before his parents come home. We recently just became sexual, and he really likes it when I'm making the first move. Well yesterday I didn't feel like doing anything and he just kept kissing me and I'd turn my back and say no and push him away when he hugged me or something. That day he was just somehow getting annoying to me, which is so strange. I feel so bad because he just wanted to cuddle and I was being a jerk. I feel like I'm doubting "us".... Help!
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Does this happen often or was it just that one time?
Sometimes you're not going to be in the 'cuddling or kissing' mood and that's okay. That doesn't mean you're doubting your relationship it just means you're not in the mood. I don't think you have anything to worry about and I think you just need to relax and realize that this guy truly does love you. From what you have written it sounds like he absolutely loves you and I have a boyfriend is exactly like that and I'm so thankful. Just live in the now and appreciate what you have!
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It's alright to push him away if you didn't feel like doing anything, you don't always have to feel that you need to do something every single day.
I know in the past.. when I wasn't in the mood, and I didn't want to be touched.. sometimes it was a sign that I just wanted him to hold me even when I said no..and sometimes it outright meant no. I know what it feels like to feel like a jerk and not be in the mood. Though, when the guy stays right next to you and tries to just wrap his arms around you, it usually means he really does care.
Just because you weren't in the mood, doesn't mean you are doubting you're relationship. Talk to him..and apologize for how you acted if you feel that bad.
I hope I helped. :)
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