mt wifes best friend never gives her and i space fo more then on day
Question Posted Wednesday November 2 2011, 6:36 pm
how can i keep from getting mad when my wifes girlfriend is always around and miss's my wife after only a day or two of not seeing her? she wants to be number one in her life and to be single like her so they can be together as much as possible. when i say something to my wife she gets mad and i lose my cool. how can i handle this correctly?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? nothinggirl answered Wednesday November 9 2011, 10:55 am: Look your wife loves you, how do i know? because she just does, but she is also a women, and we love to have friends and we like to keep them close. It's true that she should also spend some time with you because you guys are married tell her that you just want to spend more time with her, best thing to do is ask her on a date i know married people don't do this but when my dad asked my mom out she was so happy and excited. Look when she's with friend you need to accept that they are probably talking about you maybe in a good way or a bad way who knows but she needs somebody in her life that she doesn't live with.
Spend some time with her and if you feel like you're going to lose it count to ten. It helps:) [ nothinggirl's advice column | Ask nothinggirl A Question ]
scj6908 answered Friday November 4 2011, 1:40 pm: Well these are always difficult postions to be in. I would never lecture her and try as hard as you can to not lose your cool because it could push her more towards the friend. I would start by giving her more attention like leaving little notes around the house or sending her an email or text. Just saying hi, love you, your beautiful. Set up a romantic evening but don't tell her anything.
I know I went through a phase where one of my friends was calling me everyday and coming over or wanting me to come over daily. I gave into it because I was board in my relationship (not saying your wife is board but it can be the case sometimes). Some women need extra attention. I know I do.
I would say try giving her more attention, spicing things up a bit.
Hope this helps! [ scj6908's advice column | Ask scj6908 A Question ]
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