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If you give head to a guy at a party while your boyfriend is not there does that mean you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, the guy was really hot but it's not like we had sex or anything. I didn't even let him finger me! My boyfriend is really pissed and won't talk to me now but I really can't see his reasoning or point of view. I've done this a few times before but I haven't told him about it and regret telling him this time. Do you think giving a blow job is REALLY cheating? I mean, come on...it's like...kissing...sort of...I don't see a problem.
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I hate to tell you this but oral sex is cheating. Were you raised by wolves? Seriously... you're just going around giving random blow jobs to random guys and you don't know why in the world your boyfriend is upset? Come on now...sell that one to someone who's buying it, because I'm not! There is a reason why you're behaving this way and the best thing you can do is try to find out what it is. Any self-respecting female doesn't do that so I'm going to speculate here that you start there. What is it that you don't like about yourself? What are you trying to prove here? Here's a tip for you... cheating doesn't even have to involve ANY physical contact. There is such a thing as emotional cheating. I will advise you to work on your own self esteem. I think that is what is lacking here. Start with that, and then consider working on setting good boundaries. If your boyfriend has any sense at all he'll step out of this relationship. You don't need to be in a relationship with anyone until you can get to the bottom of your behavior.
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