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My boyfriend REALLY wants to have anal sex with me and I told him he could next time we're alone but I'm so scared it will hurt. He said he heard it hurt a lot for girls to get anal their first time. My friend said butt sex is gross and so we don't talk about it and I can't ask for advice. How can I not be so scared of having anal sex? Will it REALLY hurt? And does it feel good? I don't know anything about it really except I can't get pregnant doing it.
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If you do decide to participate, make sure you use a condom and to not go from anal sex to vaginal sex without disposing of that condom and having your boyfriend wash well. The anus is full of bacteria and you should not transfer anything from that area to the vagina. Having sex in the anus often results in anal tears, which allows bacteria to enter the body, increasing your risk of health problems. Only you can decide this... but here's something for you to ponder on while making up your own mind. Your boyfriend has heard that it hurts a lot for the receiving party in reference to having anal sex, and yet he still wants you to try it. What does that say about how he really feels about you? believe you should tell him this... here's the deal big boy. I'll pick up a nice vibrator and some lube and we'll try it on YOU first. If you love it... I'll try it. My guess is...that'll shut him up lol... You do what you want but ONLY if you are wanting to and are comfortable with it. Just be very careful and safe about whatever you decide.
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