15 year old male i am gay i have strong feelings for this guy we have become really close lately we hang out a lot the other day he told me he's gay and he likes me a lot i told him that i'm also gay and i like him i haven't told anyone else that i'm gay still to nervous about telling people not sure how they will react we really like each other and we want to be together should we go for it?
there's nothing wrong with being gay?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? a13d answered Tuesday November 1 2011, 6:36 pm: Hi there thanks for asking(: Well to start out with i'm not gay but I understand how you know you can be nervous to tell people things. Honestly if you like this guy yes you should be together, I mean your going to have to tell people sooner or later anyway. So yes I would be happy and be together with this guy. Now I think with telling your friends/random peers I wouldn't even bother telling them such as going up to them and saying hey dude I gotta tell you something....I'm gay. I would just get together with the guy and let people see for themselves, and if anyone happened to come up to you and be like hey dude are you gay, Just be like yep! sure am and show you don't care. Now for your close friends I would just talk to them about it, and say like I don't want this to come between our friendship but I thought I'd let you know, that i'm gay. Now as for your parents this is probally the tuff one. I would wait until you go out to a restraunt to eat and then go to a restraunt and gently tell them there so that they are in a public place, and they can't you know yell/ freak out at you. Thats what I would do. Well I hope I helped you(: Thanks again for asking! if you need anything else jsut let me know!!(: good luck!! -xoxo Madison [ a13d's advice column | Ask a13d A Question ]
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