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It's me again about the boy I can't get over
Well your advice has been the best I have been asking that same kinda question and noone has helped me the way you tried. I thanks you for that. But I'm scared to message him. I'm frightened of rejection or whatever it's called when he doesn't respond back. And yes it did fizzle out. When school started last year I had a math class with him(he's a year older) we sorta talked but he didn't talk to me as much. I knew he still cared about me because when I needed something he would get it. But it was just a little awkward and he stopped texting me he use to text me everyday until school. And then the beginning of second half he had French with me. And I asked him to the sweethearts dance a week later he gave me a note that said I'm sorry etc etc. But Im switching schools and I don't think I would be able to go and an explanation about stuff. But I tried texting him one night about twomonths after he was gone we talked for a little but he stopped responding. Sorry I'm bothering you about this but I really appreciate you.
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I can understand you are frightened of rejection. But rejection from what? You aren't asking for a date, you aren't asking him to do anything for you - you are just seeing how he is.
I think it's sad it fizzled out - especially as it could of been something, maybe it can still be something, or maybe it won't be. Did you ask him why he didn't want to go to the sweethearts dance? This is a horrible thing to say but maybe he doesn't feel the same anymore - due to him distancing himself from you and not wanting to attend the dance with you. But I can't tell you how he feels. For all I know he could still really like you, he just feels awkard like you do too.
Like I said, message him. If you don't get a reply or answer you were looking for - take it is a positive. You can't get over him because it didn't end badly, it just slowly went away. If you don't get the message you want, yes it may sting a little - but then you would known the truth and will be able to move on. I know you say you can't get over him but it is because you haven't had the closure. If he doesn't reply or you don't get the answer you want it will sting, but then you go through certain emotional phases. You will be hurt, then you will get angry at the fact you've "wasted" your time, then you may destest him, then you feel like you don't need a guy, and then eventually you will feel like yourself again.
Talking to him is the only way to either find out if he is interested, and if he isn't anymore - that will allow you to move on. Because right now all your wondering is what could of been. And when you soon find out the answer, you won't be wasting your time wondering and feeling down. You'll either be on a great high because he wants to talk to you, or you'll be on the road to recovery.
Rejection hurts but you can't move on until you know.
It's strange he just stopped talking to you, especially as you put a lot of effort in to trying to keep friends. And you don't need to worry about "bothering me". You aren't - it's what I'm here for, honest. Please, please just let me know what happens, someone's gotta be here for you, especially if you can't talk to anyone about it xx
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