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I can't get over him. It's been a little over a year
I'm 15f I've like this guy and we met through this group priest thing. And we hung out everyday when we were with the group we flirted soooo much it was the closest I've ever gotten to a guy becauseive never had a bf and never had my first kiss. And we almost kissed. Now all I ever think about is him and I do like other guys it's just he's allways in my head I've tried to talk to him again like last march but it's like awkward he use to go to my school. But then he switched to a public school not to far away. I feel trapped I want out if I can't have him. And I can't share this with anyone bc it's been so long and I haven't told my friends that I still like him so itd be weird and if I try to talk to him. I know he'll tell this girl who was in the group that I'm friends with but I lied to her about being over him. And she lives kinda by him so he will talk to her about stuff how this one girl always bothers him (not me) and then that girl tells me what he says. I'm trapped help me please tell me what to do I cry about this sometimes.and no I can't see a therapist.
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Well you are kind of limiting your options and not helping yourself here. This guy is not the world, he may seem like it now because you had a connection. Don't consume all your time worrying about him because that won't help you at all! I think you should take up a hobbie or maybe even hang out with friends. You can't make someone feel something if they don't. I guess you could try to talk to him and let him know how you feel but if it doesn't work out you can't beat yourself up over it. Please know that he isn't the world and that you need to think about yourself.
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I'm a little confused as to why you guys don't speak anymore - is it only because he switched schools?
You arent't over him, and what I think you need to do is talk to him. Whether it's for closure, so you can find out what he felt, or whether it's to get things back on track, you should.
You have a reason to - why don't you ask him why the both of you don't talk, you can even say it in a casual way, you can message him and just say "hey you, I haven't spoken to you in a while, why is that? How have you been". A simple, harmless message like that can maybe give you the answers, or perhaps closure you were looking for. Normally I don't advise people to go back into their past, but both of you didn't end negatively, it just fizzled away - and there is no reason why you can't bring that fizzle back! So just send him a message. You have nothing to lose. Trust me.
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