It is not necessarily that they are players, it's just a healthy male attitude. Sex is to men as Treats are to dogs. If one owner just feeds the dog, it is a temporary pleasure, the dog will prefer the genuine owner that is patient and friendly with him because it is a long lasting pleasure.
There are guys though that do seek one night stands and know how to find women who don't want to be tied down, but most guys -and girls- to want fulfillment. Don't buy in the withhold sex the longest possible attitude. When your both ready and in the mood, go for it. There is no quantity of time needed before having sex..it could be 2 dates, or 20.
thelaura answered Wednesday October 19 2011, 6:44 pm: No two boys are ever the same.. So this question won't have a correct answer.
I've cuddled with guys just for a cuddle. (No other feelings from either party apart from good friends)
Some boys will have more feelings for the girl they are cuddling and yeah, they probably will want sex sometimes with said girl.
Don't assume that just cos they are cuddling a girl that they want sex, though. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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