about a boy that says he likes me but doesnt show it
Question Posted Tuesday October 18 2011, 11:11 pm
I have been talking to a guy for 3 months, we are also going to homecoming together, he says he 'likes me' but hardly shows it. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kittenlover2000 answered Friday October 21 2011, 9:10 am: This is interesting, because to put it bluntly guys are simple creatures. It's usually obvious if a guy 'likes you' But then if you've not done anything about the fact that he likes you, like shown any affection or told him to back off, then I guess he's becoming embarrased by telling you in the first place. And no one wants to be with someone who they feel embarrased around-so he's loosing interest.
Your call-if you like him help him a little by showing him. if you don't but do as a friend then without upsetting anyone try telling him. If its meant to be you'll know though :)
AdviceMistress answered Wednesday October 19 2011, 1:20 pm: Guys are tough sometimes.
My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile and sometimes it feels like he doesn't show it. He loves me and I know it. Some guys just aren't always up front with how they feel towards girls. Where as we girls want the romance all the time. Truth is the romance isn't always going to be there. I love my boyfriend to death but there is such thing as reality as well. Life can't always be a fairy tale.
Try talking to him a bit more maybe he is shy and maybe he's scared who knows. Just talk to him and see how it goes! Good luck and have fun at homecoming! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
TheLonelySoul answered Wednesday October 19 2011, 12:33 am: I'm male 16. I'm like the same way. I'm very shy. Maybe he just has to get comfortable with you & loosen up. The way that I got comfortable with the last girl I used to see, was by talking. A LOT. and expressing my truthful opinions on things. trying to really get to know eachother, alone. Every boy is different though. Heck, that was a while ago. If there's a god, I'll watch history repeat. Goood Luck :) And yes, I think luck is a scientific existence in physics that is real. [ TheLonelySoul's advice column | Ask TheLonelySoul A Question ]
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