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"Friends for now"


Question Posted Monday October 17 2011, 6:07 pm

I'm 18 years old and a freshmen in college.

I met a guy and were hanging out and we hooked up. Later on I asked him if it was a one night stand and he said, "Honestly I don't have time to start anything right now but if I did, then things would be different." Then he said we would be "friends for now." I'm hoping this means that down the line, things could work out. Not necessarily a relationship, but more than just a one night stand. We live in the same dorm building and he is a Photography student taking all sophomore level classes as a freshmen, so he's very busy. Photo majors here are the busiest people ever, it's not just him. All my friends who do Photo are pretty busy too.

Do you think he's just trying to get me off his back as a one night stand, or if he's being genuine in his reason, cause I like him. Before we hooked up he had been complaining about how he doesn't like the way his roommate talks badly about women and he hasn't brought a single girl back to his room (except me, of course).

I like this guy so I want things to work out.


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AdviceMistress answered Tuesday October 18 2011, 2:22 pm:
As I have said to the people looking for advice I'm going to be honest with you.
If the guy was really into you he wouldn't give you any kind of excuse he would just be with you. It sounds like to me he jsut wants to be friends with you. You should just try meeting other guys on campus or something.

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