Me and my boyfriend has sex for the 2nd time together last night. I have been on birth control for about 4 years now, and about 99% of the time I take it at the exact same time every day. My boyfriend also wore a condom. The thing is, literally like 2 minutes before we were done having sex he said he made sure the condom was still on, and then when we were done I felt it was off. And I was like Nick, the condom. And he checked his penis and he was like omg where is it? And I'm almost positive it was stuck inside of me, I'm not really sure what happened. But it was not on him. I immediately started freaking out.
Do you think I'll be okay? I know there is always a chance of getting pregnant but I'm hoping being on the pill will save me. I've been sick just thinking about maybe getting pregnant because of this. My boyfriend said at least I was on birth control, and that no matter what he would stand by me and he tried calming me down but it's not working.
There are only two reasons I can think of that Nick lost the condom before withdrawing or upon withdrawing.
1. Nick was wearing the condom incorrectly or it was the wrong size.
2. Nick lost his erection before he withdrew and the condom by friction held within you.
I would suggest you make sure that Nick has a properly sized condom and knows how to wear it. Condom breakage and loss of condom during sex is usually the result of improper application or sizing. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Xui answered Monday October 17 2011, 1:32 am: If you've been taking birth control faithfully then you should be fine. However, I would keep on using condoms anyway as the chances may be slim but still possible. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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