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i like this boy....
Hi I'm Charlotte and I'm 14. I like this boy and we talk in class but yesterday my friend told me he does weed along with lots of other boys in my year. I totally believe my friend cos hes never lied to me but i still cant believe it. Should I carry on flirting with this guy and not do anything about it and ignore it or give up and stop liking him? I dont know what to do?
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Dear Charlotte,
That is a tough decision because you are either going to trust your friend or with your instincts. I think you should still like him if he is nice to you and is a cool person to tallk to. If you like him and he is a total jerk then you should not like him because you want to like someone that can appreciate you and love you for who are. Your friend told you that he does weed, but can you actually trust him? I think you shoul see your crush doing weed with your own eyes. You should see it for yourself. I am not saying never trust your friend, but in this situation, how do you know your friend is jealous of your crush or if he has a small crush on you? If your friend does like you then he would make up things so that you would not like the other guy. Again, you should see the guy doing weed for yourself. If your crush ever offers you weed, then say no thank you. Your situation reminds me of when I used to like a guy when I was 15 and he was cute, but he was not the best guy in the world. I had a guy friend who told me that my crush smoked, got drunk often and just told me negative things about him. Before, I really liked him and I talked and flirted with him, and I thought he was so cool and smelled unbelievably good. Until I saw him in one of my classes sleeping, being lazy and the day that he aske me out I said no, and then later on, he told some friends that he can get any girl he wants. What he said actually hurted, but I was nit going to die for him. I moved on. I only want you to open up your eyes and your mind and listen to your heart and do not listen to others because only you can come up with a decision. If you have any questions, please feel free to e-mail me and I wish you the best of luck.
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