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I have a crush on my teacher.
I have a major crush on my teacher. I am 13 and i'm a female. He is probably in his late 20's. I think about him all day. Write his initials on my hand, walk by his room and stare at him through the window, take pictures of him without him noticing, and talk to him all the time at school. My friend even wrote him a note saying I love you mr. ______for me but didn't write my name. I need him to know how i feel, and i was thinking about telling him the last day of school. he's hilarious and nice. i want to get to know him more. what should i do? and i know i should get over him but i can't. he's on my mind 24/7. its causing my problems in my relationships with my friends because i talk about him so much. please help, i'm stressed.
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The warnings about the criminal code aside, what need do you have is he satisfying? Is your dad absent in your life and you're looking for a substitute father figure? Is that it?
In any event, this obsession is not healthy. I would ordinarily say get counseling about this, but if you do it at school the administrators would probably freak out given the panic over pedophilia these days. Talk to your mom about it and see what she says. Female student infatuations with teachers is common, but ultimately futile (well, they should be). You aren't getting anywhere with the guy, so give it a rest. You are just wasting your time and making yourself look silly.
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Do you realize that trying to proceed a relationship with a teacher is against the law? It could very well cost your teacher his job and worst case scenario he could be arrested? Seriously, Back off. This is a very bad idea and definitely not something you want to get into.
Added onto the fact that it is wrong and against the law, You are a minor and if your teacher were ever be caught acting inappropriately with a student not only can he be fired, arrested but also very well likely to be charged and would have to register as a sex offender. Taking pictures of a teacher, Slipping him notes etc. COULD be classified as harassment. You need to stop, Your friends need to stop. You have already gone far over the line, Teaching is a privileged job and no your teacher doesn't need to loose his job over stupid and poor choices done by a 13 year old never mind his possible own actions.
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