Question Posted Sunday September 25 2011, 11:52 am
I'm 13/girl and there is this kid i like in my class. he is the niceist guy you'll ever meet...and he being use by this other girl. i know he likes her a lot but she is just jusing him to be popular. i try to tell him but just says "your only saying that cause you like me". i want him to know the truth but i don't know how to tell him!
You have to let him see for himself as no matter what you might say or others might he won't stop being with her unless he sees it in her himself. Also, I see this blowing up on you quite easily if he's now thinking you have jealousy issues with her.
Back off as you did in fact tell him what you knew. It's up to him to do what he wants with that info. If you are meant to be with him it will happen eventually. I know you don't want to see him hurt but regardless of what or who gets him to see what she's done he's going to be hurt regardless. You stand off better by saying nothing further. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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