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Sexually fusterated!!!!
I am a 20 year old female and I haven't had sex in 6 months and the last person I had sex with was my boyfriend of a year and a half. He is the only person I've had sex with in a year and a half. I've had sex with other guys before, but it wasn't consistent like this. I am so used to having sex with my ex and I have nothing to be insecure of because he's seen everything and it was just comfortable. I don't know if I can get back out there and just have sex. I'm scared of getting anywhere close to having sex with guys because I'm just self conscious and I wouldn't want someone talking shit about me. Also I haven't had sex in 6 months so I'm kinda rusty ;:/ how do I get back out there and actually hook up with guys I like...
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"Hooking up" can always cause problems in some way, shape, or form. Whether it's a ruined reputation, unplanned pregnancies with someone you don't know, or std's there is always that chance your taking. Just because you're not with someone doesn't mean you have to be sexually frustrated. You always have the option of taking care of yourself (I'm trying to be discrete so not to offend anyone but I'm talking about what rhymes with "rating") and there aren't any repercussions from it. If you're wanting to get out there to date and maybe have a relationship eventually then you can't be afraid to get out there and talk to people.
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If you don't want to meet an asshole that will talk shit then you need to get off the mind set of hooking up with guys. Hooking up is not always the best way of thinking, If you want to meet someone then try and get yourself out there. If you have any mutual friends then see if they would know anyone. Don't just go and try and meet someone because you haven't had sex in 6 months. Also, Someone that would go and talk shit about you after seeing your body is immature and shouldn't be having sex period. Someone who loves and appreciates you will except you for who you are. When you meet the right person it will all come back you, I promise.
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