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Hey, I have this boyfriend he is 18 and so am I. Well today we were sitting down in my porch and my cusin went outside to tell me to do her hair. She sat down in the staira and when my boyfriend was going to kiss me he looked at her, when he hugged me he looked at her and he was dancing and kinda starred at her. She is 20, but this are things that make me mad. Im not.gonna tell him nothing because im sure he knows why im like this.,what will you do if you were in this.position or what do.you suggest for me.to do??
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You say you are sure he knows why you're acting like this, how can you be so sure?
Could you try asking him calmly? Try not to sound accusing, after all, he could've been stunned by her beauty and how much she resembles you! Perhaps he thought she was someone else, not your cousin?
You reaction then depends on how you read HIS reaction. Either way, you could have evidence for further suspicion or otherwise.
Remember to keep it calm, best of luck and let me know how it goes?
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Honestly though, I think you're reading a little too deeply into it at the moment. It doesn't have to mean he likes her, maybe he's just looking about in general and every time he happens to glimpse at her, you notice?
Plus, think of it this way - if he did fancy her, he would be a little bit funny with dancing, kissing and hugging you in front of her. Surely that's a sign he's interested in you and not her!
If it does continue, bring it up - you should be able to tell a boyfriend anything that bothers you. You don't have to be mean about it, just ask why he always seems to be watching her.
Try not to let it get you down in the mean time, it could be completely innocent and you're just being a worry wart. :)
Let me know how it goes in feedback.
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You are being jealous, If you trust your relationship with your boyfriend then you need to chill out.
Jealousy can hurt a relationship, As long as your boyfriend isn't crossing no enemy lines then he isn't doing anything wrong. You may be over looking the situation maybe he was simply weirded out by the fact that when he went to be affectionate your cousins just happened to be around? Possibility.
Don't jump the gun over him looking at your cousin, This isn't only a sign of jealousy but also being a little insecure. Your boyfriend is dating you, You are his girlfriend not your cousin. As long as he doesn't do anything to give you a reason to suspect otherwise then just take a chill pill and relax.
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