Question Posted Monday September 19 2011, 12:48 am
Well im 15/f and i dont understand but for about a year now something seems to be off about myself. I dont feel like i fit in. And i realize lots of teenagers feel this way but i mean its different. I loved to hang with my friends and to someone else it seems we get along great but when im with them it feels off. Like i dont belong there. I can sense it to that im not quite connect with the others like everyone else is. And its not just my friends either its my family. I love my parents and step dad and sisters but when im with them it just feels like that connect is missing. NO matter who im with i dont feel right with them. It feels off. I only had person that this feeling didnt apply to but that person moved. So i feel all alone now. What do i do? And i dont think im over reacting either. I just feel dis connected even when im laughing and having a great time.
Guess what, You aren't the only one to feel the way you do. I'm sure there are people out there that feel they don't meet other people's expectations. You need to learn to let it go and have fun, Just go with the flow and be yourself. As long as you allow yourself to be uptight you will always feel miserable. Life is way to short to care about what other people think, At 15 you are young and you are around the influence. I promise you, The world does not revolve around who fits in and who doesn't. If someone can't except you for who you are then screw them, Find the ones that will. Never allow yourself to be miserable, Let go and enjoy yourself and you will find yourself a lot more happier. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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